[UPDATE] AITA for not telling my boyfriend I could understand his language this whole time?
Hey everyone, sorry idk how to use this app properly so I just want to clear up a few things.
I didn’t glaze over him cheating like it was nothing, obviously it’s a big deal he just didn’t give me a chance to even confront him before he started crashing out then left. And for everyone calling me stupid, obviously I know cheating is bad, I just thought I might also be in the wrong for withholding the truth for so long
For everyone asking why I hid my french for so long, i’ve been taking speaking lessons to improve (not for the whole time we’ve been together just more recently) and I wanted to surprise him when my accent was a lot better
I do not live in a country where people speak mostly french lol i’m literally in the UK, I just happened to meet a french friend group so me not having a good accent is not much of a surprise, have you heard people in the UK try to speak french? It’s painful lmao. I only understand the language because I used to consume a lot of french media when I was younger, even now I don’t know all the new slang and verlan they use but I understand enough to respond in english after being spoken to in french.
Cheers for letting me know what DARVO is, i’d never heard of it before so it’s nice to be educated
anyways after going through your comments and dms (sorry for only responding to the dms there were too many comments) i’ve decided to just break up with him when i see him tomorrow. it’s a sad way to end such a long relationship but what can be done :’). hope everyone has a great day
I don’t think i’ll update anymore cause I doubt anything major is going to happen once I break up with him, so thanks for all the advice.
[edit] everyone coming at me for not knowing how to use reddit can sod off. I made this account ages ago to figure out what was wrong with my sims 4 mods and my macbook so i’m not on it 24/7, so it’s not surprising that idk how it works. I literally had to search up how to make an update so everyone getting at me needs to find some joy in their life and stop trying to suck out the little i have left because of my failed relationship.