father attends an online hate congregation.

Hi.
I (25MtF) am not a Christian. I'm an atheist simply because I find no direct evidence personally of a god; but I grew up Baptist and read (and continue to read) the Bible extensively, as I agree with most if not all of the teachings of Christ.
My father (44M) on the other hand, is a Christian, but attends a congregation I know to spew hateful rhetoric about the LGBTQ community and about racial minorities, especially in regard to what Christ says about loving your neighbor both "as yourself" and "as I have loved you". Such distortions include (I'm not mischaracterizing as this is something I have both seen his pastors say, and that he has said directly) that when Christ says that, he means that the truest form of love is to "shatter your delusions, and tell you the truth even if it's hard for you to accept." I can't approach him about these things in any way I know (he is stubborn and prideful if you don't mind my language -- this is less of an insult, and more a description of how things are difficult for me to navigate), and he's ironically accused me of blasphemy simply for being transgender and a lesbian (among other things he has done).
For reasons related to extenuating circumstances (namely disabilities and being born into poverty) I am, for the time being, beholden to living with him, and I'm scared of the growing hateful rhetoric coming from him. I worry about being kicked out again and left to die by the one person I should be able to trust and confide in. I guess I'm coming for advice on how to navigate this better from the perspective of a Christian.
I won't mention the name of the congregation, though I'm sure at least some of you reading already know it from how I've described it. It's pretty big (at least around me). I just don't want to come off like I'm belittling anyone or insulting them, so I'm choosing to keep that church's name anonymous.