I'm so tired of team switch

I feel like the pre cognition that defenders always get bodied is what causes team switching at the beginning of the match. It gets so tiring to see too because lobbies feel like few and far between for me if its not the one lobby where you're put on the worse team each time then it's just some dead lobby(for me, at least)Like just give the team you were put on a chance, I really don't see the specialty of being an attacker.