Gents, how do you deal with it

Hey team, I just joined the sub and wanted to drop a quick note to say hi.

I’m a guy, and I’ve just passed the one-year mark with my girlfriend. I’ve never dated anyone with PMDD or displayed clear signs of it, and it’s becoming increasingly frustrating. For about 1-2 weeks before her period, it feels like everything I do or say frustrates her. She’ll constantly tell me that I’m annoying and that she doesn’t want to talk to me. When I leave her alone, I get scolded for not comforting her.

When she makes a mistake, she sometimes says she’s not mentally “there,” and I try to tell her it’s just a small error that anyone could make, but then I get told off for telling her what to do.

I really love her, and I know she loves me too, but her denial of PMDD and refusal to seek treatment is driving me crazy at times. I’m concerned that one day I might snap.

How do you guys handle situations like this, and is this something that typically improves over time?

Thanks!