Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?

I see everywhere unattractive guys are working tech jobs and get a six figure salary where he can get girls with his income but barely gets sex and only does once or twice a week, while the alpha male is a realtor who bangs each of his female clients and quite possibly the wife of the betabuxx. Is this just a mindset or are some guys just doomed to be the provider for a woman?