How to avoid zaani men

Iv seen lots of brother's post about avoiding zaaniyah woman and how to ask proper questions to them, at first I thought all those tactics and techniques actually sound solid but then I had this realization, those techniques might only work for males looking for virgin wives, I have a doubt the same tactics would work as a woman, since men and women are different and thus think and answer things differently as well. Maybe there should be another approach to this situation as a woman looking for a pure husband, I've talked about this with my female cousins and even other males and all the answers are pretty vague and not convincing. I cant imagine my future husband committing zinnah in the past, at least if I get married young. Will the classic method of mentioning all your dealbreakers(no Chastity, anger issues etc) together and then teling the brother that if you dont meet any one of these requirements just say it now but you dont have to confess which one, this way your not confessing your sins neither are you deceiving me, will this method work? Is this enough? As a man would you be honest enough to respect her requirements? Or wil the usage of the same method that men use to find virgin women work as well ?