Online marriage advice is catered to women

Muslims on the internet always side with women. And it's even worse on twitter, Instagram, etc. And it's so obvious. It's really annoying honestly.

If a man doesn't do his duties, "he's not a real man", "leave him", "what's wrong with men these days".

But if a woman doesn't do her duties, "she's not a maid", "you should help her", "she must be going through stuff".

It's so obvious especially on other subreddits like r/hijabis r/muslimmarriage and others.

When it comes to things that are not obligatory on the man, they say "you should be good to your wife".

But when it's somethings not obligatory on the wife, they say "she doesn't have to do it, it's not her duty".

There's so many double standards:

1. They only use the man's role as a leader when it benefits women.

2. They always speak about how Islam benefits women without ever sugarcoating. But God forbid a man speaks about how Islam benefits men.

3. They are harsh with men, but soft and accommodating with women.

There are so many other double standards. If I were to write them all, this post wouldn't end.