be very careful while replying to men dming you

I feel like by nature I’m a bit blunt and don’t sugarcoat my views (doesn’t mean I’m rude though lol) and this translates over on my reddit profile as well. But because of this I get soo many dms by weird men who are into submissive kinks and want me to abuse them.

I have dms open because I’m a mod in several subs and run a book club community + I’ve had some great conversations with women here. I do not reply to 99% men who dm me. (Unless it’s about a shared interest) But I get so many dms of men who try to make me angry so I will start abusing them and it actually gets them off. That dude is probably going to be masturbating to your rude replies. So far my best strategy would be to stop engaging with weirdos dming altogether. I know it feels nice to be mad and abuse creeps to let off steam, but they will manage to get off to anything.