my boyfriend is so incompetent at everything and losing it

(title fix: my boyfriend is so incompetent at everything and im losing it)
im 18 and he is 21, about to be 22 for context.
its like i cant ask him for anything without him whining about it or doing the absolute bare minimum. im busy with a task and so i ask him "hey can you bring my rabbit some (cos) lettuce?" after whining for a bit he goes to the kitchen with 1/4 of a leaf. he knows i feed my rabbit more than a cup. or worse, he goes to the kitchen and grabs the entire head of lettuce and brings it to me to feed him, and then expects me to put the lettuce away.

im not even joking when i say ive NEVER seen him use the microwave, everytime he wants something to eat he goes up to me and asks "can you microwave me some beans, can you make me a hot cross bun" and asks me repeatedly until i do it. sometimes im really tired and just ask him if he can do it himself and he says he doesnt know how to do it even though i literally moved in with him a couple on months ago and he has had the microwave for years. i had to go step by step with him to teach him how to use it (clicking literally two buttons) and he still says he doesnt know and demands i microwave everything while he rests on the couch.

yesterday we were laying on the bed and i got off and could see how messy it had gotten, i ask him "hey babe could you please make the bed for me?" and he whined some more about how he doesnt know, ect. ect. and when i just told him to please try, he made some half job with the pillows thrown onto the floor, then looked at me like he was done, im not being dramatic, it didnt look any better, but now there were pillows on the floor, i just ended up getting up from what i was doing and did it myself.

WHATS EVEN WORSE, we had an argument a few days ago so he got a little bin with trash in it and threw it across the room, putting trash everywhere and made me clean it whilst i literally had tears streaming across my face cause he "doesnt know"

and whilst i do everything for him, the moment i want to sit down, and maybe draw, rest. he starts talking about how im so lazy, how im going to fail my studies which he so "graciously paid 200 dollars for" (his mother that loves me offered). and says this to the point i get really upset and sad.

(tldr_ he cant clean, he cant do the dishes, he cant cook, microwave, or even feed the rabbit. im so tired and angry and its making me want to leave the relationship

edit: the amount of disgusting and borderline misogynistic comments and dms ive gotten from this post is really surprising, please stop calling me stupid for not immediately being able to diagnose early signs of abuse at 15 when we first started dating. believe it or not i havent exactly had the best parental role models to teach me, compared to them, my boyfriend was a saint.