Where do you find someone these days

Ive been out of the dating game for just over 6 years. And I've recently moved to a new town. I went on a few dating apps and wanted to die.

These men are crazy. I'm 32 with a 3 year old, so I know my dating pool is more limited now but damn, if you aren't ghosted, the guys are creeps or don't respond at all, or are WAY too overboard after the third message or or or. Like, how do people find love these days??