Solas or Sera?

I’ve been doing another franchise run and I cannot decide between romancing Solas or Sera.

I remember I did Solas years ago and while it wasn’t my favorite I remember thinking it felt fitting and tragic.

I’ve never romanced Sera before and actually kind of enjoy her character once I got to know her. But I’ve heard it’s a weird romance if you play as an elf. Especially an elfy elf.