My GF is INC and I'm Agnostic.
Hi! Just as the title says, need advice for what should I do?
My GF is a firm believer of Religion = Having faith in God. While I believe that you don't need a religion to be able to have faith in Him. An Agnostic.
She has a history of being in a Choir inside the INC Church but not anymore. That was ages ago too.
Hindi naman siya gaya ng ibang member na parang ginagawang Diyos si EVM. She just believes sa mga aral ng INC(not all) and sa Diyos mismo siya naniniwala. Alam din niya yung mga maling ginagawa ng mga high officer sa INC. Pero she will not leave INC daw.
Isa din daw sa reason why ayaw niya umalis INC is because yung aral nga na INC lang daw maliligtas sa Judgement day. Also, INC na din siya since bata pa siya kaya another reason na din daw yun.
I told her my side na hindi naman nasa Religion nakasalalay ang Faith kay God. Pero ayun nga, Religion is her Faith talaga. Kumbaga sa utak niya, pag wala kang religion, parang wala kang Faith.
Alam namin na hindi kami pwede pero we're both so attached na ang hirap bumitaw on both sides. Kaya maybe, just maybe. Someone out here can give me advice.
Kasi at this point, I am willing na to convert into her religion just to be with her. Pero I know na in the future, I will regret doing it. i told her this as well.
What can I say to her since from my observations, when it comes to religion. She is very close-minded kaya ang hirap pagusapan ng religion. Pero in other aspects of life, she is a very open-minded person.
Kaya I don't want to give up on her yet. We know na eventually need namin mag hiwalay, pero until then, sana may mahanap akong way to help her get out of this religion.
Please don't comment na "run" or "hiwalayan mo na yan" alam ko na po yan. Alam po namin both. I just need other perspectives on it. I need advices other than "mag-break na kayo"