Is it fetishizing?
I am non-binary but afab and also pansexual. I prefer trans women or other queer femmes. Is it fetishizing to say that? Or to say that I want a trans/femme partner? I don’t know how to explain it well but I am not really interested in masculine energy. I prefer and really mesh well with other feminine people. I just don’t know if saying I want it that way comes off as fetishizing?
For context, I’ve dated women (both cis and trans) in the past but my longest relationship has been with a man and that made me realize that I am NOT interested in men/masculinity at all.