What does “love is the answer to everything” mean?

I hear this all the time from awakened people, people who’ve had NDE, people who’ve broke through on psychedelics etc

But I don’t know what to do with this information. It’s so vague….

When I find myself in need of answers, and I remember “love is the answer”, I still don’t get it.

Should I talk to my abusive family members out of “love” or do I cut them off out of “love”???

What is love????

How can I live in love? How can I recognize it??