Getting bad vibes from OBGYN office. Surgery scheduled. Should I cancel?

I went to fill out paperwork for sterilization on Friday. I have to wait 30 days to have the surgery. I’m scheduled for March 3rd. The surgery scheduler said to me while in the office on Friday “no more babies, huh?” With a smile on her face. I said “no babies ever”. Not in a mean way or angry way. Her demeanor changed and she said “oh. I didn’t mean to offend”. I said “you didn’t. I’m just not having kids”. Then today she called me to set up the preop and post op appts and asking me what days worked. She was being very rude and asking me to choose a day even tho I told her that I needed to pull up my schedule. It changes week to week. I can’t just recall what days I’m available. I asked her an innocent question of if there is usually traffic at the time of the appointment (I live in a small town an hour away). She goes “I don’t know, [my name]”, with so much attitude. I said “are you mad? I don’t understand why you are being so rude toward me”. And she changed her demeanor and said she wasn’t sure what I meant and that she was just trying to get me scheduled. The last time I met with my GYN, she was very rude toward me too. Making big exaggerated irritated noises when I asked questions about the surgery. Honestly, now I feel I should probably find a different doctor and office.